Adding sex toys to your relationship is a big step–it may seem intimidating, but it can actually be very rewarding. They’re a great way to spice up sex, increase sexual satisfaction and improve libido.
If you are just getting started with sex toys, male masturbation devices are perfect for stroking or pushing.
1. Lovehoney Lifelike Lover Dildo
Featuring a realistic head, slender silicone shaft and raised veins, this is a dildo for all-around satisfaction. This body-safe toy features a powerful vibration core, six modes powered by a wireless remote, and a base with suction cups for hands-free fun. Plus, it is super squirty. Be sure to slather on a generous amount water-based liquid lubricant to add sensations.
Lovehoney’s Lifelike Lover dildo is ideal for beginners and aims for realism without breaking the bank. Its outer silicone skin slides to allow the internal mechanics to extend and retract, mimicking the action of a real penis. A motor located half way down the shaft rotates to add stimulation and thrusting sensation. This dildo can also be used in the bathroom and is waterproof.
The packaging is discreet, with clear photos and graphics explaining the dildo’s size, function, and compatibility. It is easy to read and simple for beginners to understand. It can be used on its own or inserted into the harness for strap-on play, or pegging your lover. The Lifelike Lover also has a small tab on its suction cup that makes it easier to remove once the toy is finished. You can also use it as a plug-in for an external vibrator or with a sex toy controller.
2. Air Pulse Clit Sucker
Another popular clit suction vibrator that also comes with a companion app, this toy from Aer is an innovative arousal tool designed to create a soft seal around the clitoris and deliver rhythmic pulses of air in a variety of patterns and intensities. It is also easy to clean which is important if it will be used with lube.
This vibrate has a slightly wider mouth than the others on this list. Some people find it more comfortable to use for clitoral stimulation. It’s also waterproof, so you can use it in the shower or bath to have some extra fun. It’s a little less powerful than the Satisfyer 2, but still a good option for those who want to experience air-pulse sensations without going all out.
Some women say this vibe makes them pee or squirt, which is totally normal and usually means that they’ve reached a good orgasm. You can minimize this by using a high-quality water-based product (silicone lubricants will break down silicone toys), playing slowly, and making sure your hands stay dry.
These devices, like all suction and clitsucker vibrators should be used with plenty of lubricant to avoid slipping or irritating the area. You can also try positioning the toy in different ways to see what feels best — some people like to hold it between their fingers, while others prefer to use it in the mouth.
3. We-Vibe Nova 2
We-Vibe Nova 2 has been designed to provide simultaneous stimulation of the G-spot and clitoral area. This dual stimulator has a posable arm that can flex to conform to your anatomy. It will maintain constant contact with the clitoral area, even when you are thrusting. This flexible design enhances comfort both for you and your partner.
It’s an excellent choice for those who wish to experience two intense pleasure points simultaneously (statistics have shown that most women, and clit-havers, orgasm easier when clitoral and Vaginal stimulations are combined). Nova 2 is easy to control with the buttons or through the We-Vibe app, which makes it ideal for low energy and long distance play.
The powerful motors are rumbly and offer multiple intensity levels and patterns. Nova 2 is made of body-safe silicone that’s free from phthalates, BPA and latex. It’s easy to clean and waterproof, making it perfect for wet or dry sex.
As a bonus, it’s also very discreet, arriving in a sleek box with a clear label that reads “We-Vibe Nova 2.” The toy is inside, along with instructions, a charging cord, a pouch for storage, and a sample Pjur lubricant. The company offers a 2-year warranty, which is more than double the length of many other sex toys. This extra level of support for customers is a sign that We-Vibe has confidence in their product.
4. Vibrating Rabbit
A rabbit vibrator is a combination of clitoral and the G-spot to produce intense, blended orgasms. This model features a “tap” or “thumps” against your G-spot while the external arms vibrates your clitoral. There are 9 different vibration settings for a variety of sensations. The toy, which is made from body-safe silicone, comes with a bag for storage and a USB cable and plug.
A rabbit vibe’s main feature is that it is easier to use compared to a dildo. You can enjoy the experience alone or with your partner. Use a water-based product to enhance your experience and reduce friction between the shaft of the dildo and your skin.
Rabbit vibrators have been described by sex educators as being intuitive and easy to use. They are ideal for beginners looking to start enjoying themselves. Like any sex toys, you should practice with rabbit vibrations to find the best positions and settings.
The rabbit vibes, in addition to clitoral stimulation can be used for anal play, teasing, and for both anal as well as vaginal sex. You may also want to experiment with stimulating other erogenous zones, such as the nipples and neck. Just be sure to communicate with your partner about what feels good and safe. This will help you to avoid any discomfort or injuries.
